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CLITORIAL STIMULATION

Clitorial stimulation is preliminary foreplay that delivers huge pleasure and ensure good sex.

You have probably heard that the clitoris has a lot more tactile receptors than the penis. Or, it should have at least!

The clitoral nerve endings are twice as many as these in your glans, so it doesn't really respond to direct stimulation until a woman is greatly aroused.

She'll perhaps tell you if you're doing it the wrong way but to prevent being too intense during the early stages of the lovemaking, here's what you may try: instead of stimulating the clitoris, pass your fingers around it or run them up and down the labia and the vulval opening (using your fingertips to slightly enter the vagina may have incredible effects).

Clitorial stimulation requires a lot of lubrication to be pleasurable; you may use your saliva but at some point you'll probably need more than that.

If you feel it's the right moment, use your finger to penetrate but note that if she doesn't respond to it or she's not lubricated enough inside, you'd better focus once more on the clitoris before you go back in.

As to oral sex, if her mouth and tongue please your penis, you can at least reward her in the same way. If she's worried about freshness down there, you may need to reassure her.

If she needs to take a shower, why not enjoy it together and start with clitorial stimulation before sex? Non-allergenic, pH balanced soaps which doesn't irritate female genitalia will restore the desired freshness.

Be tactful. You shouldn't say anything about her body as it might hurt her feelings; while some women are very matter-of-fact when it comes to this issue, others may feel embarrassed when told they could keep their private parts fresher.

Asking her to join you in the shower and saying you really want to give her pleasure by being as fresh as possible will make her willing to do the same for you.

Remember that clitorial stimulation sometimes provides more pleasure than sex itself.

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